I found a set!!! And it's only $35!!
http://www.etsy.com/listing/76221568/wine-unity-ceremony-set
Dude :-| When I tell you that I've spent MONTHS (since DH said he wanted to do the unity wine) trying to find some sort of set or the right size carafes and a separate wine glass that can be personalized, I mean that I've scoured Google for HOURS. And then today, this pops up. Perfecto. Ordering this week. Yes. Yes. and YES.
#thatisall