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Kristen
Dedicated November 2019

First Look

Kristen, on July 28, 2019 at 10:16 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 30

Who is all doing a first look? I really haven’t decided if I’m doing a first look. Or not seeing each other until I walk down the isle. The pros on a first look is getting all the photos done before the reception. Put the cons of it is not having the crowds reaction. Thoughts and ideas everyone has?...
Who is all doing a first look? I really haven’t decided if I’m doing a first look. Or not seeing each other until I walk down the isle.

The pros on a first look is getting all the photos done before the reception. Put the cons of it is not having the crowds reaction. Thoughts and ideas everyone has?

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  • Kayla
    Devoted November 2019
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    We don't know if we're going to do a first look or a first touch yet. We love things about both of them! I'm on the side of the first look though, just because I want that moment to be caught on camera and not potentially missed.

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  • Brandi
    Devoted September 2021
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    We kind of are. Going to do a duo blindfold last fiance kiss. And get to talk for a few minutes pre ceremony but other than that we do t want to ruin that special moment.
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  • Lacy
    Savvy July 2020
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    Glad this came up, talked with my fiancé this weekend, we are not doing a first look.
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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
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    Honestly, I think the biggest perk of a first look is having that intimate moment kept private between the two of you. It takes the pressure off of FH to have some big over the top reaction in front of everyone. We loved our first look because it allowed us to spend the majority of our day together.

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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
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    We are keeping it traditional by waiting for my walk down the aisle.

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  • Kayte
    Dedicated October 2019
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    We’re going to be traditional & wait till ceremony I feel like first looks take away from ‘wow’ factor, but that’s just our thinking.
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  • Danielle
    Expert March 2019
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    I loved our first look. For me, getting the photos done was secondary...I needed to be able to hug him and see his reaction up close. I got to twirl in my dress like a princess and find out what he thought in that moment. I still fought back tears when i started down the aisle, and so did he...but I didn't even realize that until I saw the photos, I was so focused on just getting to him without crying or tripping LOL

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
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    I want one because I want the moment all to myself. I don't want everyone crying all at once because it'll be overwhelming and give me anxeity. My fiance wants one because he loves first look photos and our caterer said if we do it we can eat a meal alone in the bridal suite during part of cocktail hour before the reception.
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  • The Rose Gold Bride
    April 2024
    The Rose Gold Bride ·
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    My husband and I did not do a first look. I felt that lost that once in a lifetime special moment when walking down the aisle.


    Most of the time, people do first looks if they have an extensive photo/ shots list for after the ceremony. A great idea is to have a very structured photo/ shots list for your photographer to work off of and take advantage of the time your guest are at the cocktail hour (or cocktail hour and a half lol). Then take time during the reception to sneak away and take your more intimate photos.


    Hope this helps. By the way, keep checking my blog therosegoldbride.com I have a couple of posts in the near future covering more about this topic. Smiley smile

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  • EmAbrams
    Devoted August 2019
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    I can’t wait to see the look on his face when I walk down the aisle! I know first look is great for some couples and I’m all for it, but it’s not our cup of tea.
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