Flower Girl, Junior Bridesmaid or something else?

FH's niece will be 11 and we asked her to be a junior bridesmaid. Her younger siblings are our ring bearer and flower girl, but she felt too old to have be a flower girl and we aren't having any readings during our ceremony. I asked her the same way I asked my bridesmaids, which was giving them a handwritten note and some hairties that said "Will you help me tie the knot?" Her mom is a bridesmaid so I wanted her to feel just as included as a bridesmaid.

I think 12 is a good age to be a junior bridesmaid. If you make her a flower girl, she may feel as if you're treating her like a little kid. She's old enough to walk in the processional and help out with events like the shower (except where alcohol is being served).

My oldest daughter is 13 she is a bridesmaid

my middle daughter is 7 she will be 8 when the wedding is she is a junior bridesmaid

my 4 year old is going to be a flower girl

my 2 year old will be a flower girl

I was 13 when I was a junior bridesmaid. I think 12 is an appropriate age to be a junior bridesmaid. She’s old enough that she could participate in the shower and other events

I asked my 12 year old niece to be in the wedding. I didn't expect her to do anything but have fun. She is joining us for my Bachelorette party this weekend. I made sure we did something that would be great for all ages.