Flower girls/junior bridesmaids

I think it’s ok if she matches the other girls

I think you're totally overthinking it!! LOL

And it would look really sweet, I think, that they all match.

View Quoted Comment I totally overthink everything 😩 lol I’m one month out and the stress is getting real. Thank you for the input!

View Quoted Comment Thanks for the help! I’m literally crazy lol

Breath girl! Stop over thinking this!

Most Junior bridesmaids in her age range do not match the other bridesmaids. Rather, they wear a more modest, less sexualized version, even if same colors. Do something like have her carry a bouquet, like the bridesmaids not little ones. Or change her role a little, and have her not walk with a bouquet, but take the bride's to hold during vows and ring exchange. Either way, because of her age she will naturally be different in clothes, and depending on the bachelorette, that. .... As for grandmother, grandmothers ( with grandfather or their date/SO walking behind, are seated by ushers or family members, then Mothers, again with Father or SO walking behind, are seated as the last part of the prelude, before the beginning of the procession. They do not walk down the aisle with the procession. So if you want, someone who escorts grana can the go to stand with groomsmen, and do the second part as GM. It is quite common for weddings to have some or all GM act as ushers too, since Grandmothers and grandfathers, the Mothers and fathers or SO, finish seating a couple of minutes before the procession begins.

View Quoted Comment We have one groomsman in the military so we weren’t sure if he was going to be deployed before the wedding, so FH wanted one of his younger cousins to be a backup. He has another cousin around the same age that we wanted to be included as well so he was going to usher their grandmother, who is the only person we are having an usher walk with. FH’s parents and my grandparents are walking alone and my mom is walking me down the aisle. So we decided if his backup wasn’t needed as a groomsman then we would let both of them walk with FH’s grandmother. So the one who was going to be a backup groomsman I think we should have him walk with the junior bridesmaid so he can have the role as a groomsman.