So my FMIL is super nice but she is a little crazy / neurotic. Like OCD and controlling and insane about planning. I have a planner so everything should be good to go in the planning department but my fiance's cousins wife told me that she (FMIL) was freaking out at their wedding a few years and being super dramatic about things in the hours leading up to the wedding and it drove them insane and was hard to be around. Does anyone have any advice on how I can make sure she doesn't stress me out the day of? I don't want her to think she's in charge of anything as my planner and her team will be handling all logistics. I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way because I love her but she can be a little much at time and it's hard for me to handle lol.