I want to start off by saying I truly love my future in-laws and get along with them great. That being said, my FMIL is planning the bridal shower for the groom's side. I'm happy she is doing this but she made a comment that EVERY female invited to the wedding is getting invited to the shower. Our wedding invite list is standing at about 350 right so I can expect around 75ish people will be invited to the shower. I don't want to sound ungrateful but I don't want that many people to come, I only know a small portion of them so it'll be awkward and that much attention makes me anxious. Do I just suck it up or do I ask her to invite just family and close friends? If so, how do I go about doing that?
Thank you!