Long rant ahead.
My FMIL had asked my fiance and I if we wanted an engagement party, and we said sure. She wanted to make it a surprise, but we both have busy schedules so she ended up telling us the date so we could make sure to take it off.
It started off being just a small gathering of family and close friends in their backyard, then (after invites went out) it moved to a function room at a local restaurant. Not a huge deal.
She was adamant about having favors even though I said we didn't need them (for an engagement party). Adamant about having a cake (and a fancy bakery one at that, not just a cheap supermarket one). She reached out to my mom to have her make centerpieces for the party. Now I'm finding out they're planning on having collages of baby pictures of us, and who knows what else. She's also been a stickler for trying to use our color scheme, for everything, even though I said it's not necesary.
What was supposed to be a low-key gathering now seems to be a mini-wedding, and I don't even want to go anymore. It's her last kid to get married, her baby, so I get that she wants to make it awesome for us. Am I being ungrateful or is she being extra? I'm just a very simple person, so all of this, for a little engagement party, seems over the top to me. Needed to vent.
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