So I just need to vent a bit here. My FH's family is extremely well to do (however only his mother likes to show this off) where as I come from a more blue-collar background. FH and I have discussed numerous times how we are both far more comfortable with a laid-back blue-collar lifestyle for ourselves, and everything about our choices and personalities makes that quite clear. This has never been a huge issue, until we started planning our wedding. My FMIL keeps complaining and getting mad about how everything will be cheap and tacky, and how "her guests" (the few members of her family my FH chose to invite) will be so offended because certain aspects of our wedding aren't "nice enough". She also isn't contributing to our wedding (which is what we would prefer), and FH told her that means she doesn't get to have an opinion.
To be clear, nobody is expecting a high-class affair when it comes to our wedding. We are having it on my friend's farm, bales for seating, casual self-catered dinner, no alcohol, no DJ, etc. This is exactly how we envisioned our wedding, and other than FMIL nobody was surprised by our plans. In fact, almost everyone else is excited and thinks it is going to be great because this is normal in our social circle. It's starting to really bug me that she keeps getting offended and saying how our wedding isn't going to be good enough for "her guests".