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andrea
Super September 2017

For those not having a ring bearer

andrea, on September 7, 2017 at 4:13 PM

Posted in Style and Décor 34

Who is going to have the rings if you don't have a ring bearer. Does the best man hold them or do you just give them to the officiant before the ceremony?

Who is going to have the rings if you don't have a ring bearer. Does the best man hold them or do you just give them to the officiant before the ceremony?

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  • Ks_catonlap
    Super October 2017
    Ks_catonlap ·
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    We're going to let the best man hold on to them.

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  • Future Mrs. V
    Dedicated October 2017
    Future Mrs. V ·
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    I have a ring bearer but he does NOT have the rings. The best man will have the rings. I have seen the best man and maid of honor hold the rings before, but my sister is my MOH and she fidgets. Even with a short ceremony it is highly likely she would end up dropping the ring in the sand at some point.

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  • Casey
    Savvy July 2018
    Casey ·
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    We are having a ring bearer but he's 4, so the best man will be holding on to our rings.

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  • Bunnycita
    Super October 2017
    Bunnycita ·
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    We are having a ring bearer but nooo way he's holding rings. Our best man (fh brother) will have them

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  • Amanda
    Savvy September 2018
    Amanda ·
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    Going to have my friend who is escorting my mom down the aisle bring them up

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  • Beachy
    VIP November 2017
    Beachy ·
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    Ring bearer never had the ring. No one should trust a young child with their rings. They normally have dummy rings. BM should have them, if no BM, then the groom.

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  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    The Best Man held my ring and the MOH held my husband's ring.

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  • Dolores Umbridge
    VIP June 2017
    Dolores Umbridge ·
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    My dad held then from the time we left the hotel room, through first look and gave them to the best man just before the ceremony started.

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  • Megan
    Dedicated July 2017
    Megan ·
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    I had a ring bearer but he just had turned 2 so the best man carried both

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    We put them in our pockets.

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  • FutureMrsN14
    Super July 2018
    FutureMrsN14 ·
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    I held my friends' as MOH and the best man had the other one. The officiant is also a good idea.

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  • Andrea
    Savvy October 2018
    Andrea ·
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    Our rabbi said she prefers to have them prior before the ceremony so no one forgets them.

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  • GettingMarriedinMay
    Super May 2017
    GettingMarriedinMay ·
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    BM held both rings but I don't think it matters much.

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