Ok a little background. I'm having two weddings, I've already had the first which was a traditional wedding due to my husband's ethnicity. I was very apprehensive about this wedding taking away from my second wedding which is a traditional American wedding that I planned(selfish I know). So she knew I wasn't super crazy about it in the beginning. I knew it would be hard for friends and family to attend both, so I did not put any pressure on anyone, especially after they committed to the white wedding. Also this wedding was planned by my in laws in 2 months, so not a lot of time for people to make accommodations. My best friend and maid of honor couldn't make it, which did not bother me AT ALL. She's attending my second one and she helped plan and pay for the bridal shower.
The wedding ended up being AMAZING and so MUCH FUN! I wish I could do it all over again.
Instead it was her attitude after the wedding that was weird, she didn't congratulate me at all. I'm just hearing from her four days later and it was a text that read, "So how was it, lol?" I really don't know what to make of this. I know people will say just talk to her, but I think it will make it awkward, and honestly, I feel like her actions spoke the loudest. Just wanted to get some unbiased advice.
