So my now husband and I (like many others) were forced to change their wedding plans due to COVID. We chose to postpone the big party until next year and proceed with a micro wedding this year.
The micro wedding was about a month ago and was absolutely lovely. It still felt like something was missing(hint it was all the people!), so we are definitely stilll looking forward to our party next year with everyone.
Fast forward to today when we get a message from a friend who wasn't invited to our micro wedding but who is invited next year. The message went on about how upset and hurt they were that they weren't invited this year and how we basically "ranked" our friends. He then continued to say that it wasn't right to pick some friends and not others.
We had a capacity limit of 20 people and still wanted some friends so we picked a few that we felt were the closest to us and had been the most supportive during this time. The friend in question hasn't really spoken to us or hung out with us in the last two years(not for lack of trying on our part).
I understand why he is upset, I'm pretty upset about not inviting everyone we wanted to also. But I don't feel like it's really fair for him to be mad at us like this. Am I in the wrong to be upset by this?
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