Hello everyone,
I was wondering if I could have a bit of non biased advice please. I was married in November and everything went so well. Since the day after my wedding one of my best friends started just constantly whinging about her life to me, I am talking I scrolled through our messages and she hasnt ask me how I am in once in three months even though we spoke everyday. She still took no notice on my honeymoon and continued to message me voice notes of her crying about a man etc...I have been trying to be a good friend even though she is self inflicting her own issues (debts to pay but goes out and spends money on clothes instead then cries she has no money and cant pay debts). I am a very positive solution seeking person after suffering depression myself badly many years ago. I want to help people and give them good advice and bring them up not keep them down. I have spent about 6 months every weekend on the phone to her for hours helping her, even during my wedding planning.Anyway...we got to a crux last week where she was telling me the latest issues and I responded asking if she needed to borrow any money or anything and she replied back saying I am so sick of hearing you be positive...of course you can be positive when you have a rich husband and your nice life........I was gobsmacked. I also work full time and my husband and I am a team who work extremely hard for our 'nice life'. We save every penny we can so we can do nice things
I apologised for being to positive and didn't message again since this Monday. I have now gone online and she has blocked me on everything but left my husband and other of my family on her pages.
What have I done wrong, I don't get it?