Im a young bride (20 and 21) marrying my high school
sweetheart. I wouldnt have it any other way. However im running into complications with my four bridesmaids. Specifically 2 of them.
My whole bridal party is completly spread out. 2 of my bridemaids live out of state (both college girls). They really havent been involved with much of the wedding process and I didnt expect them to be because of the distance. However My maid of honor and my one bridesmaid (also college girls) live close to me and are bickering about everything.
Its hard for me as a young bride to ask my college age bridesmaids to pay for certain events such as my bridal shower and bachelorette party. If it was my choice i wouldnt have a bridal shower or a bschelortte party because i just dont like the attention on me. My MOH and Bridesmaid have argued over every little thing. Just recently my one bridesmaid has bailed on attending the bridal shower. This only made my MOH even more frustrated and it led to an argument between my MOH and bridesmaid. My bachelorette party that my MOH has planned only consists of us 3 because other members of the bridal party live too far away. My MOH and bridesmaid argued for months over what to do for the bachelortte party. I (the bride) thought the idea of a spa day with my two best friends sounded like tons of fun. My MOH was willing to do whatever I liked and was hoping to split the my cost of with my bridesmaid. The whole day is quickly turning into a diaster because now my MOH and bridemaid have so much tension with each other. My Bridesmaid refused to help my MOH with the cost of my spa treatment. I didnt want to spend my entire bachelorette party baby sitting my two best friends and trying to keep them happy. Ultimately I just told my MOH to cancel the entire bachelorette party because im fed up with my two best friends not getting along and not agreeing on anything. Im also suffering from bridal guilt because I feel awful that my MOH is working extra hours at work to pay for things such as the bridal shower that she is throwing all by herself.
Did I make a mistake by telling my MOH to cancel my bachelorette party? I just didnt want to be stuck trying to keep peace with my two bestfriends on what was supposed to be my special day with both of them. Instead im a frustrated bride and I feel like my wedding events are going to be filled with drama from both of them.
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