Hi WW,
I’m having a difficult time with my future SIL. There’s now been more than a few instances where I’ve had to talk to her about her participation in my wedding- she’s a bridesmaid. Her birthday is a few days after our wedding and she came out to my fiancé that she’s upset that we won’t be there for her birthday, we’ll be on our honeymoon. Then when she planned their dad’s birthday, she planned a camping trip the Saturday before our wedding. Of course, not thinking that we’d be running around getting things together. When I confronted her she denied not being upset about her birthday. Then, when deciding for hair I asked my bridesmaids to send me photos. I’d explained I wanted something simple and not too intricate. Well everything she sent me was way over the top. So I went out of my way to send her multiple photos that were closest to what she wanted. Long story short, she sent me around 18 photos to counter the photos I suggested for her. We finally decided on a hairstyle. Then the next morning, she says she wants a different one- that she could do the hairstyle herself. She came out to my fiancé that I’m being difficult and that I’m disrespectful in the way I talk to her, that I called her selfish and that she’s had a bad experience so far. And that she doesn’t want to pay the money for a silly hairstyle.
I feel like I’ve been super accommodating and thoughtful. I’m so stressed out with the wedding in a few weeks, that I don’t have time for this. But she’s going to be family. It’s incredibly frustrating and silly.
Anyone gone through something similar?
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