Frustration

I went into planning my wedding and my guest list to have only The people that we truly care about there andMostly just people that we see often and no obligation invites (unless of course for peoples SOs or spouses that we don’t know). We sent out our save the dates. My fiancé’s father called us yelling at us because we didn’t invite his sister, A person who I have only met once and was rude to me the first time that I met her, and my fiancé and I haven’t seen her since then which was like 9 years ago. Keep in mind, we had discussed the guest list with his dad before we sent out and he save the dates just to see if there was going to be any drama. Now all of a sudden after we send the save the dates out he is making an issue of us not inviting her. I finally just gave in and said fine we will invite her. So now this lady is going to be at my wedding, even though she has a problem with me and my fiancé now because we didn’t initially invite her. But now there’s even more drama because she doesn’t get along with her brother, a.k.a. my fiancé’s uncle who we actually like, and so she’s already declared that she doesn’t want to sit at the same table as him which is kind of BS because I wanted to sit his family all at the same table. His dad is still mad at us by the way. So now we have to have a wedding day being surrounded by people that have issues with me.
And then of course there’s other little pop-up issues, like friends we haven’t seen in a long time randomly inviting themselves that don’t even live in our state which is why I wouldn’t invite them in the first place. I’m just so frustrated. I know that they say weddings are never about the bride or the groom, But I thought I would at least get to have people who I actually care about at my wedding as opposed to people that don’t even like me. It’s amazing how I can’t even get what I want on my own wedding day that I’m paying for myself LOL