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Lucy
Just Said Yes June 2020

Fun, fusion-y Pakistani Muslim + American Christian ceremony ideas?

Lucy, on February 4, 2019 at 10:13 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 1
Hi all!

My fiance is originally from Pakistan and his family is Muslim. I am an Episcopal Christian. We want to have a series of ceremonies that is respectful to each faith tradition and culture, while also being low-key, casual, simple, engaging, and fun. Our families are open-minded, loving, and light-hearted, with very limited expectations or issues with "x not being traditional," so we think we have the opportunity to create a unique and beautiful experience for each other and our guests. Both of us are quintessentially "spiritual but not religious."

Our Current Idea:

-Saturday morning nikah (short Muslim wedding ceremony) at mosque with just the parents
-Saturday night mehndi (casual party where girls get henna, play drums, sing songs, dress in traditional Pakistani clothes)
-Sunday morning brunch ceremony + reception (short exchange of vows, then brunch buffet, possibly outdoors or at restaurant--not a church)

Any other thoughts or ideas? I am curious if anyone has experience with any interfaith "fusion" ceremonies.

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Latest activity by Maggie, on February 6, 2019 at 8:20 AM
  • Maggie
    Champion October 2025
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    Hi Lucy!! Welcome to WeddingWire! Smiley ring This sounds like an awesome idea!! I love how you want to incorporate both of your families' cultures into your wedding.

    Would all of the wedding festivities take place at the same venue? That might be easier, having the mehndi and the Sunday morning stuff at the same place. That way people don't have to move too much and, so long as there isn't an event Saturday evening, you'd probably have the space anyways.

    I would caution you though. My best friend is Pakistani and she got married outdoors at the end of September. I don't know where you are in the world, but with the amount of people at her wedding, it was hot as all get out. I'm sure people would've fainted if she'd had it in July, so as lovely as a Sunday morning outdoor brunch might be, I would advise that maybe not the whole thing take place outside.

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