Hello everyone, my future mother in law has been engaged for over 8 years, and she is just now planning to get married in close proximity to my wedding. I'm not exactly sure how to feel about this. My fiance and I have told her that we were to be married in November 2019, and she is planning her wedding for the Fall of 2019. Both she and her fiance have good careers, she's an insurance agent and he is a nurse, so finances is not a issue for them having such a lengthy engagement. Whereas my fiance and I are in our final year of school, we will both be graduating this upcoming semester. I know that I should be happy for them, but I can't help but question as to why now? Seriously after 8 years of being engaged, now you are going to get married? Also, her fiance has been wearing a wedding band for the past 5 years, so wouldn't that take away from their wedding ceremony? Maybe I am just overreacting, but how would you go about this situation?
Thanks for letting me rant/vent. Very much appreciated. -Becks
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