Hey guys. Im from Uk, not Alabama and I am loosing sleep over this.
Background story - been with my partner for 3 years, got engaged a year ago and from the very begining (even before we was officially engaged) we wanted to elope in Las Vegas. We told everyone including the parents. My parents were okay because there happy for me but my FH mum was gutted (FH dad is chilled so was fine with it). Few reasons to elope, 1 - we both dont like the attention. 2 - save money 3 - my parents who were married for 24 years split up 2 years ago and havnt really made contact since or even seen each other in that time. My dad cheated so some bad feelings there. My mum was crushed when she found out and has been battling depression ever since.
Anyway.... last week my and FH booked the flights to vegas ready for next year and a week later, his mums got a problen with it and invites herself. She said to FH 'me and your father are coming now' and thats it. Ive had a day to think about it and now im crapping myself. Las vegas is meant to be our honeymoon aswell and there going to take up 3 days out of our 7 day trip to do what they want. His mother is bossy, spoilt and always gets her own way. Shes dramatic and it annoys me. I love her but she does my head in. Ive also got the worry now that i have to force my parents to stay in las vegas for 3 days, in hotel rooms on their own, doing day actuvities on there own potentially and putting them in a awkward position as they havnt seen each other in this time. Ive spoken to mum and dad about it and they both say 'we are adults but the pain is still raw with the divorce. We might have to see closer to the time' and i feel so terrible for them and angry at FMIL for forcing them to be put in this position. And there is no way I am inviting FH family and not mine. Im full of anxiety because if this. Do i make my parents come and make them spend money on flights/hotel for them to potentially not have a good time and feel uneasy, just to please FMIL? I feel FMIL hasnt considered my mum.and dads feelings and thinking 'well its my sons wedding and im going' even though she knew we wanted to elope on our own from the start. I think shes being very selfish putting me in this position and this is not what getting married is about. Shall i just tell everyone no one is coming and stick to the original plan? Help!
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