So, my fiancé and I have been together for 6 years and are getting married this July. His mother absolutely hates me and has talked poorly about me to her friends any chance she gets. Recently I found out that a family friend of mine is also friends with one of (FMILs) friends and she told me all of the terrible things that have been said about me. I’ve known that she does this so it didn’t really bother me until I realized that she made us invite all of her friends and now my wedding will be full of people who think poorly of me.
Furthermore, she has texted me several times asking if I would send out more invites to her friends because “it’s not all about you and I want them there” my fiancé and I said no but she keeps asking and has even said she is going to just invite them herself if I won’t.
Lastly, my fiancé and I just moved in together and my parents were amazing and bought us some furniture as a graduation/early wedding present. FMIL found out and told my parents that they are too supportive of us and that they need to stop so that we can crash and burn and realize that the whole idea was a big mistake.
I really just need help with how to approach everything because I don’t want my fiancé to have to distance himself from his family just because of his mothers actions.
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