When my fiancé and I got engaged about a year ago my future sil was married to an awful man and barely part of the family. She was extremely mean and rude to me and everyone else in the family no matter how hard we all tried. Now, she is going through a divorce and I suppose being a little nicer (not really) and she expressed months ago when I asked my 3 best friends to be bridesmaids and my sil (brothers wife) to be my maid of honor, that she was upset she was left out and should have been a bridesmaid. My fiancé and I agreed absolutely not, and I thought we were done with it.
She’s upset now that my brother is walking me down the aisle (my dad passed away) and my sil is the moh and she’s nothing (i do have a 1/2 brother who is only a guest too so it’s not like she’s the only family member without a “job”) She asked at Christmas to do a reading, we told her and the family that there aren’t any readings to do. I’ve conceded to almost everything my fiancé’s family has asked, even though we are paying for everything. Now tonight my fiancé’s parents ask again why Stacey can’t do a reading, and I’m just so over it that I have my fiancé say the real truth which is we have no relationship with her, she’s been very mean to me, and we just don’t see her being in our wedding. Now everyone is upset. His family is a constant argument between my fiancé and I and I just don’t know what to do anymore. My fiancé is mad that I “made” him say that, future in laws are mad so super long story capped up real quick...What the heck can I have his sister do at the wedding so she is “included”??? If I don’t let her do something, I will never hear the end of it. I’d rather give in than have his mom bring it up to me every time I see her (and she will). It’s too late to make her a bridesmaid (wedding is 5/2) we don’t have ushers so I don’t want her to be the one random usher. Is a reading really my only option??? Help! And thanks for reading my whole rant 💗💗💗
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