Ok, so I haven't talked to FH about this, b/c I don't know how to approach. I'm afraid if I propose this then he won't want to go through with the actual big 'TADA!' of a ceremony next April...And I'm afraid it will take away from the essence of the day...but here's my dilemma.
FH has 2 teens he has custody of, and I have 2 little ones (7&8). In June he has planned to move back into his house until it sells. It's just too financially strenuous on both of us to keep up 3 homes. He wants me to move with him too. Which I want to. But here's my dilemma...Do we get married first? I don't want to not practice what I preach...which is "you get married before you live together'. It's something I didn't practice before and it blew up in my face. I made it very clear that I want to be married before we live together. AND I don't want to send the kids the wrong message. I'm not saying that living together isn't ok...its just not how I was raised...
THoughts?