I am getting discouraged! This is my first time getting married and I had expectations that are not being met. I feel like everything I envisioned for my big day is dismissed by my fiancé and my mom (who is helping me) I am very traditional, I want to enjoy this whole process but it has just been a huge ordeal just to even get everyone on board about a damn rehearsal. I want to know practice my first dance with him but he is like “whatever let’s just wing it” my mom is driving me nuts with “don’t stress her out tjay day, and did you do this and don’t leave stuff for last minute cause I have guest to entertain, and loose weight, and the dress isn’t going to fit you once it arrives” those two have made this whole process a nightmare. At this point I am just thinking of calling the whole thing off. I should be happy and this whole process is just bringing me down daily. I even have to “remind” my bridesmaid and guest that it’s my Day and NO you can’t wear white or do an outfit change, wait for your day! Idk at this point I am mad, sad, and just over the whole thing. I am not sure what is wrong with trying to have a nice fancy official elegant wedding, instead of a “let’s wing it” wedding. I am not having a bachelorette party cause the two only friends I actually have live out of state, can’t have a proper rehearsal cause the wedding party isn’t going. Can’t ask them to go cause my fh thinks I am
Already asking too much of everyone. I have to walk on eggshells with the bridesmaids so no one quits. This whole wedding of a darn joke at this point and I am running out of Fs! Sorry for all rambling lol just needed a vent session!
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