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Just Said Yes October 2021

Getting dressed at the salon vs. the church bridal suite

Alyssa, on July 21, 2020 at 7:44 PM Posted in Hair and Makeup 0 12

Hello lovely community!

I am a very excited (and nervous) bride trying to coordinate a very large wedding party! I have 9 bridesmaids, three flower girls, 2 moms, and 2 aunts/readers getting ready with me the morning of my ceremony.

We will be getting our hair & makeup done in a local salon. We will all be riding there together in a large van, wearing comfy clothes. I am seeking feedback on what would be the best way to coordinate getting dressed. We can do it at the salon or at the church bridal suite.

If we get ready at the salon, we'd have to get back into the large passenger van in our dresses. One bridesmaid mentioned that we run the risk of them getting wrinkled somehow. Another bridesmaid said we will wrinkle the dresses regardless once we get on the party bus later, and that plenty of bridal parties wear their dresses on their way to the church. On the positive side, if we were to take longer than expected at the salon, we'd already be dressed and ready to go once we arrived at the church. Also, the salon has plenty of mirrors and lighting. The church only has one skinny wall mirror and a few lamps.

The advantage to getting ready at the church is that we wouldn't have to worry about somehow wrinkling the dresses on our way or getting caught in the rain. We could hang the dresses up the night before at the church run-through or stop before the salon and hang them. They would be unattended while we are gone, but I doubt anyone would touch them.

I am not sure what would be best. It seems like the salon is most convenient in every way except for the gowns possibly being wrinkled in the car. I don't have any experience with weddings, so any help with this issue would be greatly appreciated! Is it common for bridal parties to be dressed as they arrive to the church? Has anyone been in a similar situation or have any feedback on what would be best?

Thank you so much!

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Latest activity by Elizabeth, on July 22, 2020 at 11:00 AM
  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I’d definitely get dressed at the church. If you are late, getting dressed at the salon vs church won’t really matter.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I would recommend getting ready at the church. First I would doubt that the salon had room for all of you to get ready anyway. Just make sure your appointments are early enough that it will give you plenty of time to get ready afterward. Also you might want to consider more than one ride to the church unless everyone has their own person at the salon. Your girls will be done on waves and could leave to go start getting ready so everyone isn’t doing it at the same time. Just a few thoughts.
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    Thank you so much! That's definitely true. It would certainly cut down on the risk of added travel time too!

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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    Hi Cyndy, thank you so much! That is actually a smart idea that I didn't think of. It would be easier to clear the salon out as we go, rather than have people wait around the whole 4-5 hours anyway!

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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Weddings I have attended (and worked at when I was younger), the bride and attendants get ready either at her home or the church/venue. The beauticians travel to them.
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    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    Hi Jana, thank you for bringing this up. I wonder if I could ask the beauticians to do this; it would certainly make things easier.

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    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Many hairdressers and makeup artists regularly travel to your location. Ask to see if they do that or if they only work in their shops.
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I would get ready at the church. The church will likely have more room for getting dressed. I'm sure you can always bring more mirrors with you. For my brother's wedding, we had our hair and makeup down at a salon then went to the church to get dressed. It worked out perfectly.

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  • Kevin
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    Kevin ·
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    I would get hair and makeup at the salon and get dressed at the church. It will be so much easier to not sit in the car with dresses on and even have to worry about it. Plus the getting ready photos of the dress zip up and all all that would be at the church and not the salon which I’m guessing is a better photo op. You don’t need all the lighting and mirrors at the church because the hair and makeup is already done! I say the church
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I would get dressed at the church because of all the issues you and others have mentioned. Honestly, it only takes about 5 minutes to throw on a bridesmaid's dress and maybe 10-15 max to put on a wedding gown depending on how complicated it is.
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    I would get dressed at the church. I can't see the salon being too excited that 17 girls/women are getting dressed in their facility. Since the church has a bridal suite, I would take advantage of that.

    Is there any chance the hair/make up artist would be willing to travel to you? This is what we did and it was SO much easier.

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  • Elizabeth
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    Elizabeth ·
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    I would do it at the church. Even if you can't get them to travel to you for the H&MU, you can at least avoid any issue of being caught in the rain. You'll already be concerned with protecting the H&MU in the rain, so worrying about the dresses, too, would be a lot.

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