So we are getting Married next summer, but are looking for a home before our lease runs out and don't want to rent anymore. We looked in to a VA home loan and they said they could help but we have to be married first. The company we are going with for the house said they can have it move in ready if we choose to marry now and get the VA loan. We are considering it but its to late to change the weeding day so we are looking at some thing simple now then having the big wedding we planned next summer on our 1 year anniversary. I am ok with our decision but he was wanting to only tell our parents and keep the rest of the family out of it im not ok with that we talked about it last night and he's more open to having out family's involved. but my question is or rather im looking for advice on what to tell my family and what we should do for our little married now and wat to call our big wedding idk this is a weird situation i guess...
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