My mother and law and me have a tense and distant relationship. I have been with my fiancé for eight years and she has never liked me. She says very weird things to me ALL the time. Like just a couple days ago she was going on about how she loves my FH’s brother’s gf. They are both 18 and she is talking about how she can take wait for them to get married and how along she gets with her because she is traditional (I’m not traditional). She then asks questions about the wedding and when we show her things we are doing she scoffs and says things like “oh I would never do that” (in a very nasty tone). They also have racist tendencies. I’m Hispanic and my fiancée is white and they made me order for them in Spanish at a Mexican restaurant even though the waitress spoke English. They even asked me if what we were eating was traditional Mexican food even though I’m not Mexican. They then said that all Hispanics eat tacos. Which is not true at all. The entire experience was demeaning. Later on, the dad started yelling at me about how he hates Obama and about politics. He always does this to me. Worst part is that these are just examples from one week and it’s been eight years of this. My FH thinks that they are ridiculous with how they treat me. I could go on forever about weird things that they have said and done.
Regardless, she seemed hurt when she found out that she wasn’t invited to the getting ready room. My mom and her do not get along and she has made weird comments to my mom too. I love my FH so much and I want to make life easier for him. That’s the only reason I’m considering having this witch there. I’m just afraid that she is going to say something weird on my wedding day or do something to ruin the mood. What would you do?