So I’m not sure what to do, I don’t have a bridal party so I don’t have a group of people to get ready with me (which I’m ok with). I’m planning on my mom being there with me but that was it. My FH wants his mom to get ready with us. I have only met my future MIL once and it wasn’t a good interaction (both of his parents hold onto things that he did when younger and can’t get over - as far as to make comments about how awful he is for the whole time I met them, to which I got angry and went off about how great he is to me). My mom wants the time with just me because she knows we will both be emotional and I’ll be stressed as all get out.
Should I suck it up and invite future MIL despite knowing it will only add to my stress and take away from my time with my mom? Or should I say sorry but I’m not ok with having her there?
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