Hello! My cousin is getting married for the 3rd time (one wedding every 5 years). She is 35 and having another wedding. She is also 7 months pregnant. I asked her what restaurants she liked and she said she would prefer cash. So, I have a small child as well (10 months) and really don't have $150 for another wedding gift plus a baby shower within a month. What do you think?
Should I get a gift but less than what I would if it was her 1st or even 2nd wedding? Do I get a gift card to a nice restaurant?
Thanks,
Carolyn