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Just Said Yes November 2020

Giving the Officiant the Rings

Jennifer, on September 22, 2020 at 8:58 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 1 5

Hi!


We are planning on giving our officiant the rings ahead of time for the ceremony instead of having a ring bearer or bestman/maid of honor hold them.


My question is HOW? Do we give him just the plain bands to keep in his pocket loose (he is a trusted family member)? Or do we give them to him in a ring box? How large of a box is appropriate?


And what happens to my engagement ring? Do I wear it before the ceremony on my ring finger and then my fiancé puts the wedding band next to it?


I would really appreciate the input! In terms of ring etiquette my fiancé and I are clueless!


Thank you!

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Latest activity by Kia, on September 23, 2020 at 12:34 PM
  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    My question is HOW? --Up to you. I mean I know our officiant will check in with us pre ceremony so that would be a good time I think. I would call and ask your officiant what he prefers? Do we give him just the plain bands to keep in his pocket loose (he is a trusted family member)? Ask him but I would keep it in something like a nice box or bag. I plan to for my MOH.

    Or do we give them to him in a ring box? How large of a box is appropriate? Does not matter. Just like a simple ring box.

    And what happens to my engagement ring? Up to you. I will wear mine and many brides do.

    Do I wear it before the ceremony on my ring finger and then my fiancé puts the wedding band next to it?

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  • A
    Devoted October 2021
    Adrienne ·
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    I'd put them in a box, or if you can't get one on short notice then a little pouch should do.

    For the engagement ring, I am going to just wear it and have my FH put the band on over it, and then a little later I will sneakily switch them into the right positions. I wear the promise ring he gave me a few years ago on my right ring finger, otherwise I would put the engagement ring there for during the ceremony.

    TBH I'm not sure there is any sort of ring etiquette for during the ceremony??? But I'm also relatively clueless lol

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  • Kia
    Devoted September 2021
    Kia ·
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    I am getting my rings soldered together and I am giving the rings to the best man in this cute little pocket watch looking thing https://weddingshop.theknot.com/product/gold-pocket-wedding-ring-holder-with-chain
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
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    How far in advance are you getting your rings soldered together? I have a total of 3 bands & am not sure if I should do them all at the same time, wear 1 & have him put the other 2 that are soldered at the time of the ceremony...
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  • Kia
    Devoted September 2021
    Kia ·
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    Well the wedding was September 4 but we postponed. I was in the works of getting them soldered back in March just to get it over with but then disaster struck. I plan on doing it by June of next year for sure and just buying a random ring from Etsy or something to wear in its place until wedding day
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