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Emilia
Super June 2019

Going to someone else's wedding...

Emilia, on July 18, 2021 at 2:19 AM

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Hello everyone ! I know you are all preparing your weddings... but are you invited to the weddings of other couples too ? Do you compare yourselves to them...? Do you observe to know what (not) to do at your own wedding ? If so, what are your conclusions ?Sometimes I realise that a lot of couples do...
Hello everyone ! I know you are all preparing your weddings... but are you invited to the weddings of other couples too ?
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Do you compare yourselves to them...? Do you observe to know what (not) to do at your own wedding ? If so, what are your conclusions ?Sometimes I realise that a lot of couples do stuff for their guests which are not even noticed or appreciated... I think it's good to try to look at our own Day from other perspectives sometimes... Have you learned something as a guest to do or not to do at your wedding ?

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  • Milada
    Super October 2021
    Milada ·
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    I haven't been to a wedding since 2018 but watching the show 'Four Weddings' has me comparing and/or noticing little things that I like, don't like, would do, wouldn't do.

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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
    Emilia ·
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    Watching them really stressed me out as I was thinking all my guests would only criticise everything :-D But I agree, it helps to see the weddings from another perspective... I know I wouldn't want a self service for example.

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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
    Emilia ·
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    I agree that what we don't remember from another wedding, isn't worth doing at ours... Then, remembering the fact that there were some distractions - that's another thing... There was a 2-months old baby at my wedding, her mom was so worried that she would cry at the ceremony... But that's a risk, it would be nobody's fault.

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  • Milada
    Super October 2021
    Milada ·
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    I keep in mind that they were on a competition show and it was their job to pay attention. Also that they were brides too so they were definitely comparing themselves to the others but you're right, it helped me see things that I didn't want. (Definitely don't want a self service lol).

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  • Shadia
    Savvy October 2033
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    Everyone's wedding is different even if they have the same decoration's as someone else's.
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