Groom checking up on his ex on wedding day...

I agree it is a bit odd, but he chose you. He's with you, and you had a great time on your honeymoon, yes?

His reasoning doesn't sound insane but you sound a little insecure. I would sit down and have a serious talk, I don't think this is that big a deal if you actually trust him.

I expected "checking up" to mean actually contacting her, which wouldn't have been cool, but seriously, he just looked at a few pictures.

A wedding is an emotional time, and some people react stronger than others about the transition to a legal partnership. I wouldn't be thrilled he was creeping on an ex the night before the wedding, but it wouldn't throw our relationship into question. Talk to him about it, and then let it go. There's no use being resentful in a time that should be the start of something new.

I don't know.. the night before the wedding?

Not sure how I would feel about that.

Call me a conspiracy theorist, but there have been a lot of very strange questions/posts from 2 ring new users the past few days. Just saying.

Lauren - agreed, I know I wouldn't like it either but I also don't feel the need to check my husband's instagram search history when he leaves his phone around so I feel like OP might have deeper issues.

Only picture on her profile- accurate description?

Yea I completely agree Jeanne.

I think the bigger problem is you thought it was ok to snoop on his phone. If you trust him completely, digging through his phone never would have crossed your mind. Yes, the fact that he did that is a bit strange and unsettling but spying on your new husband on your wedding night while he's passed out drunk is not cool.

Wouldn't like it, but also wouldn't "get curious" in the first place. You say you trust him, but checking his phone when he's passed out says otherwise.

Annnnnnnnnnnnd North Pole, AK. Bye Felicia.

Asking for mature comments... Definitely smells like a troll.

I'll bite on the conversation. I also noted that you say you trust him, but your actions say otherwise. There is definitely something that you don't trust him not to do. His reasoning doesn't sound off any alarms to me unless it is out of character for him to reflect and do some deeper soul searching.

Shit. I looked up an ex from college the other night. Doesn't mean I pine for him lol.

@alexis, I was gonna say the same thing. I am totally guilty of looking up my ex on Facebook every once in a blue moon. I still think that breaking up with him was one of my best life decisions...but curiosity is also a part of human nature.

Trolls gonna troll. Otters gonna ott.

All,

Thank you all so much. I guess my emotions got the best of me and was making me act immature. Reading all of these comments was like a slap in the face.

@Rosemary and Jean- I created this page because I couldn't post it from my real page. Its tooooo embarrassing to share.

Thank you all

I think it's the timing that really bothers me.

To be fair, I love checking up on my high school ex on Facebook. What a disaster/missed bullet! I know it's unkind, but somehow seeing how things have gone for him makes me feel #blessed.

Yeah, thats the part that hurts (the timing). But hey I have to put my big girl pants on and move on. Because thats what marriage is about. Forgiving and letting go. Lauren thanks for understanding

I don't think there is anything to forgive, except maybe him forgiving you for looking at his search history.