My FH has had major social anxiety for years, even oftentimes around his lifelong good friends. The wedding is (obviously) stressing him to the max, and causing massive anxiety. Every time I bring up the topic of the wedding, to ask his opinion, or update him on plans, his eyes glaze over, and his usual signs of anxiety start. I know he is excited about being married, and he tells me that all the time, but the thought of being the center of attention among a very large group is triggering his anxiety big time. He'd much rather elope, but he knows how important a wedding is to me, so he agreed.
He acknowledges that he gets anxiety, but is in total denial that it is something he could see a doc and get meds for. He doesn't really trust doctors in general. And he also doesn't think he has 'diagnosable anxiety.'
Anyone have any non-medicinal methods for easing a severely anxious groom?