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Mia and Brandon
Dedicated May 2025

Groom wearing wedding dress

Mia and Brandon, on July 26, 2021 at 3:31 AM

Posted in Wedding Attire 27

Im a gay man and have decided to wear a dress for the ceremony im extremely feminine and grew up in a household of only females so it kind of feels right for our wedding and its now starting to hit me that it may cause alittle friction during the wedding because not only does my fiancés mother not...
Im a gay man and have decided to wear a dress for the ceremony im extremely feminine and grew up in a household of only females so it kind of feels right for our wedding and its now starting to hit me that it may cause alittle friction during the wedding because not only does my fiancés mother not like men doing or using anything feminine a couple in my family aren't the most supportive especially of breaking gender norms im not going to change my mind of wearing a dress but i may have a talk with the people before hand as for the dress itself im going to be making it myself for a few reasons reasons being 1 im only 5 foot 2 inches so dresses in the style I like would be too long for what I want sense I want it right Below the knee 2 being even tho I'm a guy I have a more curvy body which runs in my family for both the men and women to have a more curvy body mine being wide hips large thighs and large bum with a smaller waist so if I were to buy a pre-made dress I would haft to get it larger and loose a large amount of detailing 3 being im extremely picky with my clothes and I want the dress to have aaaaaaloooooot of pearl detailing and a tooooooon of lace and for it to be pink and white and a lolita style how should I go about talking to these people about me going to wear a dress

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  • Mia and Brandon
    Dedicated May 2025
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    I plan to do hair and makeup with cute shoes and accessories would you like to see what I plan to wear/make
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  • Steph
    Dedicated May 2022
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    Absolutely if you’re open to sharing!
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  • Mia and Brandon
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    Groom wearing wedding dress 1
    Pearls throughout my short curly pink hair like this
    Groom wearing wedding dress 2
    With a hair comb like this
    Groom wearing wedding dress 3With a shoulder length veil with lots of lace and pearls (not this but just this for example)Groom wearing wedding dress 4


    Dress like this just below my knee

    Bouquet like this

    Socks like this
    And shoes like this hopefully all the pictures will show
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  • edecker
    Super December 2024
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    I would suggest asking those people you are worried about, "omg do you wanna see my dress ideas?" and then they can ask "you're wearing a dress?" to which you can say, "yes!" the end. Don't take any negative comments from them on it if its something you truly want for your big day.

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  • Mia and Brandon
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    Thank you you are very sweet
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  • Jenine
    Beginner June 2022
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    Wear the dress! It’s what you want on your day! Much love 💕
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  • Mia and Brandon
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    Thank you 💗
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