Usually the girls cause all the drama, but how many of you have had to deal with groomsman drama?
Well its not really drama just very poor planning on his part and it is stressing me out. I know this isn't really my problem but it still stresses me out. We got engaged in August 2018. We asked our bridal party pretty early on (by November). We didn't do any gifts or anything though until April to make sure everyone was still good. All the guys have been fitted and will pickup their tuxes when we get to TN.
We are 18 DAYS away from our wedding and FH reached out to this groomsman to see when his flight was coming into to town so we could pick him up. I should note this groomsman decided in June that he wanted to move to CO with his roommate and girlfriend (from FL). To each there own. We made sure he was still going to be able to swing it to make it to the wedding since he wasn't due to move till August. He assured us no problem he would be there. So fast forward to this past weekend to when FH reached out to him to see if they were driving or flying and if flying when his flight was coming in. He reached back out to my FH and said they hadn't booked anything yet. FH said no worries just be aware the rates are going up daily. He then responded back and said hes going to ask his dad for the money because he doesn't think him and his girlfriend can swing it financially.
Y'ALL!!! We are 18 days out.. we already paid for his lodging. FH will be devastated if he can't make it. They have been friends since they were 3. I kind of knew this was going to happen when they said they were moving to Colorado. They are all servers and baristas so didn't have anything saved up they just kind of went for it (which major kudos to them because most people wouldn't be willing to do that).