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Hayley
Savvy May 2023

Groomsman trouble

Hayley, on August 2, 2021 at 6:21 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 10
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One of our groomsmen started dating a girl who I met a couple weeks ago and just disrespected me and my relationship. It was at another wedding and started flirting with ny fiancé while I was not present and as we were leaving she wanted to loudly tell someone else that I do not like her. I felt completely disrespected and now since they are dating I feel like I am going to get pressured to invite her when I absolutely do not want her at my wedding. I do not know how to handle this!

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Latest activity by Katie, on August 4, 2021 at 2:40 PM
  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    Based on your wedding date, your invitations won't even be sent out for another 18 months, so I would stop stressing about it right now. Who knows if they will still be together by the time your wedding rolls around.

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  • mrswinteriscoming
    VIP December 2021
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    Your wedding is in May 2023 so I would not be worried about this just yet. There is a long time between now and then and there are way too many possibilities as to what will happen.

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  • Viviana
    Dedicated October 2022
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    I agree with @Stacey - you still have a long way to go - they may not even be together by then. and if they are and you still feel the same way, then I say don't invite her!

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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I agree with all the other posters. It is highly unlikely they'll be together in 2 years.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Don’t worry about it right now- your invites don’t get sent out until 6-8 weeks before the wedding. You have plenty of time!
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  • Gabby
    Devoted October 2021
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    But I say if for some reason they're still together don't invite her. People that are rude to you don't deserve a place at your wedding no matter what.
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    Honestly though, the wedding isn't for almost 2 years. A lot can happen before then.

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  • Katie
    Expert August 2021
    Katie ·
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    With your wedding being in 2023 I wouldn't stress about it. If she is flirting with your fiance she is probably like that with every guy. Eventually they will break up before the wedding. Most guys don't want a girl who disrespects them like that. It's really not an attractive trait.
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  • Sav
    Dedicated November 2021
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    While I do agree to wait it out a little bit before worrying since it seems you have a bit of time before your wedding, I will offer a little advice... this girl seems like she is interested in starting drama between friends. If I were in your shoes I would be as polite as possible, that way if she is running her mouth, people will see her for her drama, and you will not be roped into that category as well. If anything, speak privately to your fiancé about your concerns and IF they are still together when its time for your wedding address the problem then.

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  • Katie
    Expert August 2021
    Katie ·
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    This is really good advice. I agree with this
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