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Kaylee
Dedicated September 2020

Groomsmen

Kaylee, on February 26, 2020 at 9:13 PM Posted in Planning 0 8
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When did your FH ask his groomsmen to be his groomsmen? Here we are a little less than 7 months away from our date and my Fiancé still hasn't asked his best man or groomsmen to be in the wedding. When is the latest he should do that? Because I have been staying quiet and leaving it up to him but i'm not gonna lie I am starting to get slightly concerned. We have been engaged for a year on Monday...

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Latest activity by MrsD, on February 27, 2020 at 10:33 AM
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    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    I think 6 months is the latest. They need a heads up to make sure they are coming to the wedding, and can save up for the suit and bachelor party.

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  • Kaylee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kaylee ·
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    That's what I was thinking. Thank you!
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  • Emily
    Super August 2020
    Emily ·
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    He did it about 8 months before! I reminded him at one point they need to know the date and plans soon 😉
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    We asked ours immediately after
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  • Kaylee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kaylee ·
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    Here lately I have reminded him probably 5 times. Like I have stayed quiet but I have also been slightly mentioning it that it needs to get done at the same time if that makes any sense. I don't wanna be pushy but I also think it needs to get done. 😂
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  • Emily
    Super August 2020
    Emily ·
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    Right 😂I literally told my girls as soon as possible. Guys typically avoid “making it about them”. Even for his bachelor party he words it as “we are taking a guys weekend trip” not “my bach party” haha.
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  • Onya
    Expert October 2020
    Onya ·
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    We just formally asked ours a couple days ago and our wedding is April 2021. We are doing a destination wedding so we needed to give them well in advance notice.
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  • MrsD
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    MrsD ·
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    We asked them 10 months out. When we've been out of state BM or GM, we prefer to have 10+ months notice. Any earlier can be hard to make the date depending on time of year.

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