I really needed a place to go with this. I have spoken to my partner about it but he seems dead set on his choices.
Maybe I am wrong but I feel like the wedding party is suppose to be a group of people who supports you and your marriage. My partner has chosen his groomsmen to be the two of his friends who have nothing but disrespect me and our relationship since day one.
I am uncomfortable with his choices and so is pretty much anyone else who knows or have seen how his friends have acted towards me. I want him to have his high school friends there, like he wants. But I am not happy with the idea that he kicked my siblings out of his party for nothing having enough fond memories with, and is refusing to allow certain people in my family or friends list show because he can't stand them or they will ruin his day, but I don't have the same pull with people who really have done me wrong.
Am I wrong?