I have been doing a lot of reading up on this issue. According to everything I have read in etiquette articles (and in other posts), if inviting a guest that is married or in a long-term relationship, it is customary to invite their significant other. However, COVID has thrown things a bit out of whack. We are on our 3rd wedding date and are not changing it anymore. We have also had to find another reception site because our venue cancelled on us in April. We have decide on hosting our reception in our back yard, which means cutting down the guest list significantly.
During our state’s lengthy lock down, quite a few guests on our list have ended relationships. So I dropped their SO names from the list. A couple of these same guests have also started new relationships. These are individuals I have never met. I am now wondering if it is OK to invite the original guest only and not their new partner. These are people I have never met nor are we likely to meet prior to the wedding.
Please keep in mind, I have NOT sent out my invites yet. I appreciate any feedback.