My fiancé’s family frequently gathers with ALL extended family and has a large family in general, so I knew from the beginning it would be hard to have a small wedding.
But we haven’t looked at our pending guest list in over a year, so I was hopeful that after this past crazy year and COVID, he would be ready to slash the list.
Not only did he not cut a single person, but he actually ADDED people he originally forgot.
I’m so frustrated and just defeated. We cannot have a 200 person wedding in September this year!! I don’t even want that at all, but especially not with the pandemic. Why does he insist on having every single random person from his family? People he maybe sees 1 time a year. People who don’t go out of their way to ask how he’s doing, to talk to me at events, to be involved in our life. Yet he considers them close family. I just don’t understand.
Has anyone dealt with a SO who refuses to cut the guest list?
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