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Just Said Yes June 2019

Guests singing during bridal procession

Karissa, on April 23, 2019 at 11:23 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 11
I think it would be really cool to walk down the aisle to the hymn, “be thou my vision.” My friend plays a beautiful version on the mandolin and I think it would be extra sweet if my guests could sing it as I walk down. My mom is convinced that this will be too complicated or that my guests won’t sing. Thoughts? Advice on making type of thing work?

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Latest activity by Laura, on April 23, 2019 at 4:03 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    It sounds nice, but I think that's asking a little much. Would most of your guests even know the song?

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  • Alexis
    Expert June 2021
    Alexis ·
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    I think this would be such a lovely idea! However, I do think it would be complicated if the majority of your guests didn't know the hymn. There would need to be someone to start and lead it, and guests would need to know that they're supposed to sing. I think you could talk it over with a few guests close to you and see what they think and if they would be willing to sing along.

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  • Summerbride77
    VIP July 2019
    Summerbride77 ·
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    I think it’s a know your crowd thing. It could be really cool if you know that people will sing. But if only half of your guests actually sing I think if could end up being really awkward.

    is there someone you could have lead the song? You could mic them and invite guests to join along but this way you still have beautiful music is guests don’t sing.
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  • K
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Karissa ·
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    If it were printed on the programs and there was a lead singer would that help?
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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K ·
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    I'm a trained choir singer so I would totally be down for this if I were a guest but I could see other people not wanting to do it. I think like PP said, if you know your crowd will do it, go for it.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    I feel like your vision of this and what will actually happen are two different things. Just have your friend (if they offered) play the mandolin.

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  • Alicia
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    Alicia ·
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    I agree with everyone, it definitely depends on your guests. If most of your guests are from semi-traditional Christian roots, chances are good they'll know at least the first verse. However, it would be awkward if only like 5 people know the hymn and the rest of your guests don't. I would suggest if you choose to do it, provide the lyrics in your program. I know the hymn by heart, but its easy to get mixed up without the words in front of you. You'll also need to designate someone to start off the singing or no one will know when to come in.

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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    I guess this depends a lot on if this is a song you can count on your guests knowing ? I’m not familiar with it, so I wouldn’t be singing along. The problem with printing lyrics for those who don’t know it well is those people will really have to make a choice between singing (and looking at the program) OR looking at the bride walking down the aisle . I’d personally prefer to watch the bride!
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  • M
    Devoted October 2019
    Melodie ·
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    I think this is a very sweet idea. But, I think that your guests will want to focus on you as you walk down the aisle, not the hymn book. I think it'd be very nice for your friend to play on her own, and would probably go smoother. Smiley smile

    Would there be a way to incorporate another hymn into the service? Maybe after your officiant gives the message? Or, if you are having communion, choose a hymn or two for guests to sing as everyone communes? (I'm assuming that your wedding is a religious wedding in a church and there is an organist/pianist available.)

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  • Lauren
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    Lauren ·
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    I went to my old roommate's wedding last weekend, and she had everyone sing a worship song while her and her husband were doing the Lord's Supper. She had the singer ask everyone to sing with him, and the lyrics to the song were on a piece of paper that you received when you got your program. I loved it! Not everyone sang but most people did (even if it was fairly soft). I think this sounds like a great idea! I think it'd work best if you had the lyrics for everyone. I love "Be Thou My Vision". Smiley smile My best friend had it in her processional as well.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    That could be beautiful! Maybe add the lyrics on a page in the invitation so the guests who want to sing it would be more familiar with the lyrics. I would love to do that as a guest if it would make the bridge happy

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