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MrsBanks
Expert April 2018

Guys wearing engagement rings?

MrsBanks, on April 14, 2017 at 1:28 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 64

So yesterday one of my FH coworkers came up to him, and asked about his ring. FH told him its his engagement ring. And his co worker went on to say how guys arent supposed to wear those, and its a "girl thing." It didn't bother him, hes actually been wearing a ring for awhile (at first we had promise rings). It didnt bother him, but it offended me a bit. Is it weird for guys wear e-rings? Does any of your FH wear them?

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Latest activity by Rae, on February 20, 2019 at 11:10 PM
  • EngineerInLove
    VIP September 2018
    EngineerInLove ·
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    It's definitely not the norm but I don't see a problem with it at all. I think it's awesome he has an e-ring! Does it have a stone or is it more like a wedding band?

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    I've never heard of a man wearing an engagement ring, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

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  • MrsBanks
    Expert April 2018
    MrsBanks ·
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    Its just a simple band. When we got engaged he switched our his promise ring with this one he has now. It just feels natural for him to have a ring on that finger. I always thought it was sweet too lol thanks for the reassurance ladies!

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  • FitzwilliamDarcy
    Devoted July 2017
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    I don't think it's the norm, but I've definitely known men who wore rings prior to being married (I just don't think they had a label for what they called it).

    But I love that your FH is challenging the norm and using the label that he thinks is appropriate (that's the only way to change things)!

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  • Cassidie
    Dedicated September 2017
    Cassidie ·
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    I love it! I've never understood why women are expected to mark that they are "taken" and men aren't . I also think it's totally ok for there to be no engagement ring at all (for guys or gals). Anyone is capable of letting it be known that they are in a serious relationship and what stage that relationship is in, with or without a ring.

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
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    FH had an engagement ring as well (and a promise ring first). He lost both though lol, one at a friend's house and the other at work. Definitely getting our rings insured. While I don't think it's the norm, it's not weird or wrong in any way.

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  • Maria
    Master June 2018
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    My friend proposed to her FH. He wears an engagement ring. She got a lot of backlash while trying to buy a band for him at the jewelry store. It's a shame people care so much about this.

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  • Jaime-Leigh
    Super April 2018
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    I am super jealous because I am still trying to convince FH to wear a ring after we're married. He thinks it will bother him too much (like a physical nuisance not like a marriage-is-scary thing). So the "argument" continues... UGH lol

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  • FitzwilliamDarcy
    Devoted July 2017
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    Jaime-Leigh, have you thought about the silicone band for your FH? Allegedly, they're really comfortable!

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  • abegaile
    Super June 2017
    abegaile ·
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    FH wears an engagement ring. He felt left out! When we did our engagement photos he was super excited to get to have his in the shots as well.


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  • MrsCalderon
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    I've honestly never heard of this

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  • Amanda
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    Sorry I think it's pretty stupid lol I wouldn't want my FH to have a ring yet ... we aren't married yet ... I wear my engagment ring but he proposed to Mei guess if a women proposed she'd five him a ring

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  • MrsBanks
    Expert April 2018
    MrsBanks ·
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    I respect everyone's opinions, and I'm glad my FH isnt the only one. I agree that its totally sexist to say a man can't wear one.

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  • ambrok
    Master October 2017
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    When we bought FHs wedding band, he got another ring that he wears ever so often. Not a big deal n who does it hurt?!?

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  • Dani
    Devoted July 2017
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    If he wants to wear it, I don't see a problem with that. I always have a weird idea about men wearing engagement rings because the only man I've ever known that wore one wore it because his fiance was extremely jealous. She would make him take photos during the day to prove he was wearing it and would even surprise him at work to see if he had it on. It was so weird.

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  • N
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    Fine with me but I don't see it catching on with most men.

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  • EM
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    EM ·
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    My FH wears his around the house occasionally. I told him that if he wanted to he could wear it as an e-ring but he wants it to be a special thing to only wear it outside once we are married.

    I see absolutely nothing wrong with it, and it's not stupid at all what the hell

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  • MrsBanks
    Expert April 2018
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    Aww thats so sweet he wants to wait for it to be special!! @EM

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  • Judi
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    Judi ·
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    FH wears one and he loves it - its more symbolic and has no real value (silicone) but its also for him to practice wearing the ring because he doesn't wear any jewelry ever

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  • Miranda
    Dedicated November 2018
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    FH still wears his promise ring. I haven't heard of the idea of an engagement ring but I love the idea.

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