Had an awful wedding experience and it’s ruining my honeymoon

Hey ladies!

I need some some advise from anyone this may have happened to. My now husband and I got married at San Francisco’s city hall and had one bad experience after another. My makeup and hair artist took longer than expected (we told her the time we wanted to arrive and that’s when she finished) but she was so kind and sweet and even helped me in my dress, and helped when I had a shoe and earring mishap. But we were 30 minutes late to our 2 hour wedding shoot and arrived 1 minute before check-in! Then our 9am wedding didn’t start for 45 minutes so we wasted a lot of time just sitting and waiting. Then to top it off, I bought a beautiful gown to go with the architecture of the building, just to be told we had to get married in their ugly ceremony room instead of at the rotunda; just to be told it’s not always available but they knew a year in advance it wouldn’t be. Then the judge got mad at my brother for needing to use the restroom just before we were called in, even though it was their fault for being late. Sadly I spent what was supposed to be a magical honeymoon crying because I spent over $3000 to make this day special and all we did was get rushed around and yelled at. And my two hour photography session was really only one hour. I’m so upset because I picked the SF courthouse on purpose to be a beautiful stress free day because I get stressed out so easily. I just wanted to get married to my wonderful husband and not have to worry about anything but us. But instead I don’t feel married and now I’m upset and I feel like I wasted money because when I look at our photos, all I remember is shaking, crying, and frustration...instead of the beautiful moment where we got to look in each other’s eyes and be joined together as one. Has something similar happened to anyone else and how do you cope with it? I just want to move on and enjoy being married, instead of miserable and wishing we had gone with our cheaper option and then have a beautiful destination wedding later 😤 Please help...