Hair/makeup issue

So I have my neighbor doing my hair and makeup for my wedding. I asked her for a day to try different styles. And I showed her a picture of the hairstyle I wanted. My theme is 1940s but I wanted my hair braided on the side. She said that wouldn’t do and proceeded to do my hair and have it down (that’s the only style she did) took about 3 almost 4 hours, and all it was was just curling my hair and a lot of hairspray and two Bobby pins that’s it. I’m getting married July 2nd. The issue I’m having because I really struggle with using my voice is I didn’t like the hairstyle at all, it was frizzy and a hot mess by the end of the day, and the makeup was old. Not being mean but you know that certain smell you get from old makeup that’s what it smelled like. I then went into the mirror and politely told her I liked it only to try not to panic because I didn’t even recognize myself and I felt completely not me. How do I approach this nicely?