My heart is just not in the wedding anymore. My mom insisted on paying for the wedding even though my fiance and I were budgeting everything to pay on our own. I had one condition--that my mother's step father would not be invited.
Through out the planning process, my fiance and I have made a lot of compromises for my mom like inviting her entire Sunday School class to doing the cake flavors and design. We threw our menu out the window because she wanted something different. Fast forward to two weeks ago, I sent out all the Save the Dates out and my mom told me that her step father will be invited to the wedding along with his fourth wife since my grandma's passing 5 years ago. She said he is coming because she has given up so many of her desires and hasn't asked for much regarding this wedding so he is coming and the wife.
Now my grandmother (my father's mother) is pissed off because I don't want her decorating the wedding. It's not that I don't trust her, but I have vendors and I don't want someone interfering in their process.
Both my mom and my grandmother hate my dress and want me to buy a new one.
Basically, I wish I would have paid for this on my own. Now I just don't even want to go through with it. I mean, I wanna marry my guy, but this wedding doesn't feel special anymore.
What do I do?
