So my fiancé and I met with our pastor yesterday for premarital counseling. He asked if we were living together and we told him yes. We own a house together.
He suggested for one of us to move out and abstain for sex until our wedding night.
His reasoning was completely different than most most of the pre-move in talks we got from our more religious family members.
He swears he has had several couples do it and they are so much happier now. They have a better sex life, communication skills and no sexual intimacy than before. He was basically saying God will bless you in ways you cannot even fathom.
Has anyone done this after living together happily for over a year? Success? No difference?
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