My FH asigned his younger adult brother as his best man last year. I just found out he spoke with his brother about his bachelor party and the suit details. Well his brother told him he doesn’t have money and to get his friends to pay for the bachelor party. My FH got real mad and hurt because he always helps his brother ever time he is called. My FH told him you haven’t even saved $20.00 in one year to show your trying to be there for me on me big day.
So, today my FH spoke to his mother about what was said, how he felt and how he was going to speak to him and removing he from his official position. She was mad. She didn’t even respond.
I told my FH wait tomorrow she’s going to say it’s my fault. You we changed our wedding date so there was enough time to save money. When in reality the date is not the problem. I told my FH we should have eloped. Less drama for us.
So, has any groom demoted their best man? Any man drama.