Have you argued with your parents or in-laws about the wedding?

Innocent. I've been annoyed but we haven't had an argument or anything.

Innocent. My fiancé and I are planning the wedding, our parents are not involved in the planning process

Innocent. My mum doesn't know I am engaged yet, and I haven't seen his family since we got engaged.

Innocent. Haven't had a reason to.....yet lol

Guilty. FMIL is being obnoxious about inviting her extended family across the country, but trying to replace people on our list we know aren’t coming and just doesn’t get that we are counting on those people not coming but sending them the invite bc we want them to have it as a keepsake/ know they are wanted there even tho both sides know they won’t be able to come. We’ve told her numerous times she can invite anyone she wants, but if they are not on our family list we chose (I have a large fam and FH has an even larger consisting of his mother, father, and step fathers sides) then she has to pay for them. I just get nervous bc she’s offered to help FH with things and then when the time comes screams at him and makes him feel bad for bringing it back up and asking for the help, and I don’t think they will actually save up for the money for it and she’s trying to get them on our list when we can’t afford it.. my parents are helping us generously and I don’t think it’s fair for them to get stuck paying for her friends and distant relatives. FMIL and FFIL are paying for the rehearsal dinner and when she said no significant others at the rehearsal we offered to pay for their plates bc some of our bridal party is married or in serious relationships and their spouses should come and then she offered to pay for everyone, but this guest list is just a night mare! Hoping a sit down w both parents will help her realize how it has to be bc FH and I explaining it doesn’t seem to get through to her.