Have you had a ‘zilla moment?

I don’t think I have (yet?) but my FW has gotten into rather stubborn arguments with her family about the guest list!

A few little ones. One was when I was trying to make a payment to my venue and couldn't get a hold of the coordinator who takes care of the payment. I was so frustrated that I wanted to change venues. My FH talked me out of it. She has been much better lately but I think it's because we are now closer to the wedding date.

The most "'zilla moment" I've had through the whole process was when my sister asked if her boyfriend could wear jeans (FH and I are traditional in the fact that you do not wear jeans to a wedding. Ever.) and when she asked if they could bring her boyfriends son. We are having an adults only ceremony and reception. So I had to put my foot down a little there, but I don't really feel that bad since she is my sister. She's used to me telling her what to do lol

I did maybe once or twice, but it was justified!

I definitely have not. Innocent!! It's stressful and some things have been changed around but I haven't had a 'zilla moment.

I’ve had a couple. We signed with a DJ at an expo only for them to put down the wrong year and fall through and she had read my text but not responded so my text had a touch of zilla to get the response😳


The only other time it happened we were talking about how to get my family there. To get to the location you have to go across a ferry and a good chunk of my family lives in a different state and my dad was wanting to make it as easy as possible, going well out of the way and costing us money so I put my foot down and said “if it’s too ‘difficult’ to sit on a ferry for 10 minutes and then drive a little further, they can just not come. I don’t even care if they are there.”
I feel my moments are justified but I definitely had to be a little hard to get it

Not yet but I know there will be my moments. I also have some amazing bridesmaids and my mom to help me through it all! I am praying I dont but you never know!

Innocent! Too early still

Guilty. And looking back I feel like it was only partially justified. FH and I had picked a venue, an absolutely gorgeous barn with a huge deck and three story barn wall in the ceremony area (perfect for pics). It was far enough out we really didn't talk to them much as it wasn't close enough to really plan anything. I was scrolling on Facebook one night and I see a video that they shared from a wedding. It looked really dark, and then I noticed they had built a huge roof over the deck. I flipped. Especially when the venue owner told me I couldn't see it for another six months. Needless to say, we got in the next day and I got my full deposit back.

Haven’t done this yet

I've been pretty organized and it has helped me be stress free. The only type of 'zilla moment I've had was when my fiance's family tried taking over in the planning and changing what we've already decided on because it wasn't to their liking. Then I had a bit of a moment, but I think that's pretty justifiable.

No zilla moment for me. But my fiancee? Yes! I call him groomzilla.

Kinda. My FH told me he wanted to wear converse with his suit and I kinda flipped...

Innocent. I do check in with myself when I think I may be getting too caught up in things. So far, so good.

I think I have and I'm probably going to have another moment with the same person, because their attitude is pretty selfish right now.

Pretty sure I'm innocent! It has been smooth sailing so far.

Um yeah once with our wedding party- deciding who should be in it. I wanted my 3 best girlfriends and my fiance wanted our siblings- his two brothers and my two sisters. He said there was absolutely no way he wanted to get married without his brothers and I said I didnt want my sisters unless I had my 3 best friends and so we compromised and we have both siblings and 3 friends on both sides so it worked out but it was a fight for about a week.

I had a little bit of a moment when I found out the venue we wanted got booked for our date, but other than that I’ve kept my cool lol

Innocent! But that might change

I don't think so, but my mom and FH would have a better idea. I feel like I have been pretty laid back