I have been with my husband for years before we got married this year. His mom would either text me, leave a Facebook comment, or get me a small gift for my birthday. For her birthday, I would always be the one to coordinate (for both of us) on what card or gift to get her. For her birthday this year, I went out of my way after work to get her the cake she liked, printed off the wedding pictures she requested, etc...
This is the first time she’s forgotten my birthday. I’m actually not upset (surprisingly). She’s probably been super busy with Christmas stuff and it just slipped somehow. It would’ve been nice to get a nice text but that’s okay. If anything, I’m just more resentful towards my husband bc it’s HIS family and he should be the one coordinating cards-gifts but being the good girl I am, I’m so polite/proper with remembering people’s birthdays and giving them a card and small gift. We also had an incident with his sister where she never says “thank you” after everything get her baby small gifts here and there (clothes bc she’s constantly growing so quickly). We don’t give things to get a response but it’s rude when it’s not acknowledged, so we’ll be stopping with gifts altogether.
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