Hello all,
Initially I thought a “big” wedding was what I wanted, but then COVID happened and somewhere along the way I started to ask myself why that is. I started to love the idea of having a much smaller and intimate affair. For me, a big wedding means 100-150 guests and above, 50-100 is medium sized, and anything less than 50 is small.
Before COVID we estimated a guest count of 80-100, and now we’re considering a count of 50. My only big issue is the idea of spending money on a one day event, and potentially not even seeing majority of people again. Majority of guests are also family. I realize that when it comes to weddings and funerals it’s mainly for other people. Although I would like to celebrate with our closest friends and family I also just don’t see the point in it anymore and have even considered just doing a very small ceremony and calling it a day. I’m just worried that I will regret not doing something more festive.
I’m not really sure where these emotions are coming from (maybe a mixture of postponing due to COVID, stress of planning, etc)
Any other brides experiencing this or have gone through this?
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