My fiancé and I are 34 and 43, been together for 6 years, living together for 5, engaged for 2.5. We were supposed to be getting married on October 10, 2020..ya know, just a little over two weeks away...Well, he told me at the end of July he didn’t want to marry me. We had just put down our deposit in May. I had just bought my dress and everything. We’ve had a good, happy and healthy life together. He didn’t really give me a good enough reason as to why he did what he did. Marriage has always been an open discussion and he completely blindsided me. Why am I good enough to play a wife role, but not good enough to be his wife? Why did he hurt me so badly? He shattered my heart. He shattered me..
What makes matters worse, is he pretends everything is “okay”, and like nothing has changed. He’s away from home right now on a project with his company, and it makes thing seven more difficult for me. I am extremely hurt and I don’t know what I’m doing..😭😭😭